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The Bottom Line

Well, it wasn’t the most pleasant story I saw on TV news last night: A report about multiple incidents of women receiving massages from male therapists and complaining of sexual touch.

It’s tough to talk about what’s an ugly truth in the massage therapy field. Some people in our field may not be doing massages because they want to relieve pain and stress. They may be getting sexual satisfaction from massaging clients.

I don’t believe in bashing male therapists – Some of the best therapists I have met are men. But in 20 years all of the therapists I know whom have expressed sexual aggression in massage have been men.

Well, there it is.

What should we as a profession do? What should employers do? Not hire men? Not get massages from men? Prohibit cross-gender massage? (Some states do.) I’m not comfortable with any of those ideas. I don’t know.

But I do know if we are to have a public perception as the only healing profession that involves vulnerability and touch we have to be careful about who does massage.

The TV news story was a bit grim. The clinics where the men worked did fire them, but their statewide practice credentials were not affected. Technically, these men could find jobs at other massage clinics fairly easily. At least one did.

No criminal charges resulted from the incidents, which, of course, means that these workers had no opportunity to defend themselves or be found not guilty or guilty. No convictions, no revoked credentials, no closure.

Is unwanted sexual touch a gender issue? I hope not. But many male therapists tell me how hard it is to get hired on at a spa or clinic. Many places seem to want one, only one, male therapist on staff.

And those men had better be thick-skinned. They have all had clients suddenly back out of a massage when they find out their therapist is male. When the front desk asks for gender preference when booking massages, the men lose income and feel discriminated against. And if the front desk does not ask, the spa loses money and suffers schedule nightmares as clients back out of appointments at the last minute.

I’m not offering solutions here, just a heads-up. I don’t want people to be afraid to get a massage at any spa or clinic. Ideas anyone?

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History at Your Hands

We had a wonderful time picking out decorations for my mother-in-law’s 90^th birthday party.

Pink table-covers, birthday lawn signs, a banner and bubble-making bottles, clean fun for all of us youngin’s. We’ll also be running around next weekend picking up a vanilla cake with white and pink frosting, tamales, sandwiches and the “Happy 90^th” balloon. (Surprisingly popular, our cashier volunteered.)

All of which led me to ask Mom Mary the big question: To what to you attribute your long life?

Mom Mary looked at me quite surprised. “I have no idea. I’m just glad to be alive. I wish I felt better, though.”

Ooh-yaah. Hey, with a massage therapist in the family, many people would assume Mom Mary has the feel-good covered. Well, other than the occasional emergency neck or shoulder massage, Mom Mary has begged off the family discount. (Double for blood relatives and spouse, Mom Mary free.)

Yet thinking about it, I have had several older folks who come in for massage regularly. And I am impressed. My oldest client was 103, a World War I veteran. I have given massage services to many people aged 70s to upper 90s.

As a member of the second coddled generation, the lucky ones who grew up with food, dental care, schools and an expectation of college, I get a good sampling of how my elders got into their golden years.

Wars. Prison Camps. D-Day. Epidemics. No food, no heat. No air conditioning. Religious genocide. Ethnic genocide. Is longevity produced by adversity? Or, to put it another way, does that which does not kill you make you stronger?

It makes me wonder how my generation through the much-too-much millennials will fare. Will we prick our fingers on our computers and die? Could we ever be tough enough to skip a gluten-free meal?

I think a massage certificate for Mom Mary is in order, perhaps a pedicure as well. You should get some credit for living long, well and in good humor.

Save Your Hands

Hands are the best tools in a massage therapist’s toolbox and the most likely to be injured.

It happens to even the most careful therapists: a burn from a hot pan, a scratch that gets oily, a bit of tendonitis that turns into a raging case of nerve inflammation.

Plan A for most therapists is don’t do stuff that can hurt your hands. Hopefully we learned these things in school:

No unsupported thumb work, glide with the whole hand, wrist straight when using pressure. Push with the entire body from the feet, not the shoulders, neck or back. Avoid radial and ulnar deviation during effleurages.

Prudence in off-hours helps, too. No ATV riding, no mountain-biking, no rock-climbing, wear gloves while gardening, etc.

Plan B for many therapists is a few forced weeks off, with the resulting flat wallet. Few of us have disability benefits or the inclination to sit idle.

So there is a need for therapists to tap some resources from our wiser colleagues. Books are helpful, such as “Save Your Hands!” by Lauriann Greene et al.

Most conventions have one if not two classes in ergonomics for therapists, yoga for therapists, Tai Chi for therapists, etc.

I have enjoyed Val Guin’s classes and her DVD “Forearm Dance” that demonstrates the principles of working with a Tai Chi stance and avoiding use of the hands as much as possible.

One good self-audit for your work is to video yourself while performing basic massage moves. You will see when you lose form or go off track.

The resources are there for us to use before injury. Hopefully we can practice prevention and recovery as much as we preach it to clients….

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